About Me
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- I have done a lot of things in my life and have also worked in many different jobs to make a living and to experience life. This blog is just some of my musings, sometimes funny, sometimes inspirational, sometimes sad, sometimes angry, sometimes simple but all the time, it's just me.
Friday, April 13, 2012
Manage from the Inside Out
Continuing my blog on Greatness, today's blog is not from Robin Sharma's Greatness Guide but from another book by Laurie Beth Jones titled Jesus CEO (Using Ancient Wisdom for Visionary Leadership).
Most modern organizations have the alpha management style or the beta management style. Alpha using more authoritative use of power and beta more cooperative use of power.
However, the Omega method of management incorporates and enhances both alpha and beta. And most religious leaders including Jesus used the Omega method, perhaps maybe created it too.
If you think about it, He is one person who trained 12 humans who went to influence the world to the level that the time itself is now recorded as BC and AD - before and after his existence.
He worked with staff that was totally human, not divine and some of them who were illiterate, questionable backgrounds, feelings but they still went to accomplish His tasks that He trained them to do and they only did this for one main reason, to be with Him again. Is there any manager or boss in your life of working where you would go to all lengths to just be with the person again?
And the best of all, His omega leadership style is intended to be used by any of us.
Among one of his methods was that he managed from inside out, from the people closest to him.
Many companies have a sprinkler phenomenon of management, like a water sprinkler, so much energy is usually put in watering the outer reaches of the lawn that the grass closest to the sprinkler head is usually dead or yellowing.
Many managers and companies often overlook the people closest to them despite all good intentions. Most company receptionist are not aware of major functions or visitors to the building. I remember once where the functional MD of one of the businesses in the company was waiting for his sponsor to collect him from the receptionist and the receptionist was even unaware of a major function by that MD. Similarly, while many preachers and pastors talk about shepherding and finding lost sheep and sowing the fields, many preachers' kids are notorious for their own lack of it.
The author herself gives an example of a osteopathic hospital that spent millions on educating people about osteopathy on television, media ads etc. But 75% of the hospital's own staff had no idea what the word meant, the cooks, the security, the clerks and cleaning crew had no idea of the meaning.
You may think, "So what if the security guard knows more about the hospital mission?"
It means plenty, to the bottom line when the staff are more informed. Because they will communicate this to their friends, and this communication influence will be worth more than any millions you may spend on advertising.
Jesus understood this, of educating and informing his people first.
He depended on small circles to spread into bigger circles, like a ripple effect.
Jesus looked at the crowd and said, "Phillip, how shall we feed all these people?"
Phillip suggested that they be send home so they could find their own dinner. But Jesus was concerned and knew many would faint along the way. So He enlisted Phillip to help in solving their hunger and He taught Philip to empathize with people the way He did.
He made sure His staff knew what was going on at all times. Even when He was going to ascend, He said the Holy Spirit will guide you until I return. He kept the grass closest to him green, He managed from inside out.
How about you? Do you sometimes overlook the people closest to you? If so, can you correct that?
What is your system to making sure your staff is constantly informed about the facts as well as emotions or spirit of any situation?
Think about it.
Take care and be well.
Thursday, April 12, 2012
Life lessons from Sponge Bob Square Pants
Who lives in a pineapple under the sea
"Spongebob squarepants"
Absorbant and yellow and porous is he
"Spongebob Squarepants"
If nautical nonsense be something you wish
"Spongebob Squarepants"
Then drop on the deck and flop like a fish
"Spongebob Squarepants"
I usually read 4 sometimes 5 books at a time. A few pages or chapters, a few minutes or an hour.
Current reading list includes The Greatness Guide (Robin Sharma), Fooled by Randomness (Nassim Nicholas Taleb), The Bible (some 200 authors perhaps), Micro (Michael Crichton) and MAD (Making a Difference) Culture.
Why do I read so much? Well, some people like to watch history channel, some like to watch the cartoons, some all the reality shows. Most people maybe read only the newspaper or perhaps some pop-culture magazine.
I like to read.
But that is not what today's blog is really about. Today's blog is from the excerpt on one of the things I read in one of the books above.
I like to watch cartoons. And while many of us adults would consider Sponge Bob Square Pants one of the stupidest mind blowing cartoons in the world, there are life lessons we all can learn from Sponge Bob.
Be the eternal optimist
Sponge Bob always sees the best in every situation. Our thinking really does shape our reality. When you look for the best, you find the best. When you look for worst, you get worst.
Value People
He values his friends even the crankiest of them. Always respect and put people 1st.
Be an Original
He is one of a kind, himself. Many of us are afraid to be ourselves and easily give up on our dreams and start to follow the crowd. Once we have courage to be true, the greatest you, then we will be the greatest us.
Laugh and Have Fun
Sponge Bob knows how to have fun and laugh. There is no point being successful but sad. Reach the mountain top but enjoy the climb as well. Life is not an ordeal. Laugh and Have fun.
Take care and be well.
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Everbody's beautiful in their own way
I am unique. As I am beautiful. And so are you.
Remember you are beautiful, everybody is beautiful in their own way, under God's heaven.
Take care and be well.
Friday, April 6, 2012
So what did I do when I was 43?
Eat. Bangkok Lane, The Lil Wine Place, Tree Monkey, Mansion 32, Kopitiam, Euro Deli, G, Penang Road Chendol, etc etc
Laugh. with wife, with friend, with the world
Drink a little. Tom Yum Martini, Dirty Martini, Dry Martini and Edwinger beer, wine, water, juice.
Sleep.
Enjoy.
Catch up with a old friend.
Shop. In Gurney plaza, elsewhere, Spice Garden
On a Good Friday. Celebrate 43.
Church, on Easter Sunday. In Pulau Tikus Church of Immaculate Conception.
Eat. Or did I mention eat already.
Owh Penang, how wonderful to come home again after nearly 18 months.
Take care and be well
Laugh. with wife, with friend, with the world
Drink a little. Tom Yum Martini, Dirty Martini, Dry Martini and Edwinger beer, wine, water, juice.
Sleep.
Enjoy.
Catch up with a old friend.
Shop. In Gurney plaza, elsewhere, Spice Garden
On a Good Friday. Celebrate 43.
Church, on Easter Sunday. In Pulau Tikus Church of Immaculate Conception.
Eat. Or did I mention eat already.
Owh Penang, how wonderful to come home again after nearly 18 months.
Take care and be well
Sunday, April 1, 2012
BAU, LWD, SLA, ASM, ISM, ITIL, ROTFLMAO
APRIL FOOLS?
BAU - business as usual.
New role starts, wonderful, ahppy. Back to program management.
What about handover, transition, old role?
BAU. Business as usual. Do both. Yay. Double pay too?
Got a message from someone, subject LWD.
So many acronyms. LWD, person leaving, last working day, farewell.
Thought I'd be rid of the ISMs and the SLAs and the BPRs etc, but oh no, not just yet, BAU my friend.
Just do it. NIKE.
Take care and be well.
BAU - business as usual.
New role starts, wonderful, ahppy. Back to program management.
What about handover, transition, old role?
BAU. Business as usual. Do both. Yay. Double pay too?
Got a message from someone, subject LWD.
So many acronyms. LWD, person leaving, last working day, farewell.
Thought I'd be rid of the ISMs and the SLAs and the BPRs etc, but oh no, not just yet, BAU my friend.
Just do it. NIKE.
Take care and be well.
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Vision
An excerpt from Alice in Wonderland:
Alice was puzzled. As she searched for a way out of Wonderland, she came to a fork in the road. "Which road should I take?" she asked the Cheshire Cat.
"Where are you going?" the Cat inquired.
Alice said she didn't know.
The smiling cat gave her this reply, "If you do not know where you are going, any road will get you there."
Do you know where you are going and where you want to go?
See that your goals are clearly defined and that you know what it means to perform well. This will give you the clear focus for your energy and put you on the road to becoming high performing, empowered producers. All good performance starts with clear goals.
Also, have a vision, know who you are, where you are going and what will guide your journey to get there.
If you do not know who you are, it does not matter then where you are going or how you will get there.
You need to be clear of your values that will guide our journey and help us make the tough decisions when we hit obstacles.
It takes courage to create a vision but the most courageous person is a leader who acts on the vision.
Or you could have a plaque like most companies and most leaders do and say this is our vision. Two years on, the leader changes or the organization changes and the vision changes and another plaque is made.
Do you know where you are going?
Do you know how you going to get there?
Do you know what will guide your path?
Ask these questions and follow them.
Take care and be well.
Friday, March 16, 2012
A Dog's Purpose?
Taken from a friends FB status.
Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa , and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.
I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.
As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.
Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. It has changed the way I try and live.
He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life, like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?"
The Six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."
- Live simply.
- Love generously.
- Care deeply.
- Speak kindly.
- When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
- Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
- Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure Ecstasy.
- Take naps.
- Stretch before rising.
- Run, romp, and play daily.
- Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
- Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
- On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
- On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
- When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
- Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
- Be loyal.
- Never pretend to be something you're not.
- If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
- When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Live a Life that Matters
I WANT HAPPINESS
Take away your selfishness - I
Take away your desire - WANT
What are you left with?
Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations, and jealousies will finally disappear.
So, too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.
It won't matter where you came from.
It won't matter whether you are beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin colour will be irrelevant.
So what will matter?
What will matter us not what you bought, but what you built.
Not what you got but what you gave.
What will matter is not your success, but your significance.
What will matter us not what you learned, but what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion and courage,
or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example.
What will matter is not your competence, but your character.
What will matter is not how many people you knew,
but how many will feel the lasting loss when you are gone.
What will matter is not your memories,
but the memories that live on in those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered and for what.
Living a life that matters does not happen by accident,
It happens by choice.
Take care and be well.
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